i heard stories about men going inside the labour suit and being traumatize from the birth experiense.
so far mine its fine althought my mother told me he was crying at one point wich he did no want to admit at first.
imagine
so was your with you all the way?
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i was in sooo much pain!!!!!
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He was that traumatised that he refused tohave any more kids (this was his feelings for 3 months). Every so often now he has to talk about what happened as it still scares him. Dread tothink what he would have been like at a normal birth LOL.
I had a hospital birth with my first, yes hubby was there but.........he decided he was hungry and sat eating cheese and pickle sandwiches which really made me feel ill as to me they stank!!
He still has two scars on his hand where I sunk my nails into his hand when I saw the needle they wanted to numb me with for stitching lol!!
And yes he cried but Im not sure wether it was the pain in his hand or the joy of having a son!!
I went on to have two home births and he was amaizing, after the intial panic he was the support I needed and has told me he wants another home birth with no'4(trying ttc in New Year) as its so special for him to be the one and only family member there.Ah bless!!
Hes an absolute nightmare any other time but bring on the baby's and I cant live without him.
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He was with me from start to finish, i had a very quick labour, he held my sick bowl! nice!!! and he cut the cord! i'm hoping to have a home birth this time so should be with me through out again!
He didn't cut the cord tho, a bit too much for him LoL. I wished I had tho, I was offered.
Kerry, Freya and Bump
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"i on ly sceam at him"
love him to bits, just did not want to hold no oneelses hands.
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