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Cant feel baby?
HI Everyone,
I am probably just being totally paranoid as I know that at only 19+4 the baby has not got a regular pattern of movements and is not big enough for me to feel every single movement yet, but Im really worried as normally by this time I have felt my baby move. I normally feel it first thing in the morning and several times throughout the day and also several times in the evening, but so far today I havent felt anything at all - not a peep. I relaxed in bed for a bit this morning before going to work, had a hot drink, had a cold drink, ate something - still nothing. The last time I felt a movement was between 7-7:30pm yesterday. I cant get home until 5pm to use my doppler I really hope I find a heartbeat when I use it or feel something before then as Im starting to panic this is really unusual as Ive felt the baby move in this sort of pattern for the last 3 weeks every single day and now nothing? Did anyone else get this?
Sorry for going on!
xxx
I am probably just being totally paranoid as I know that at only 19+4 the baby has not got a regular pattern of movements and is not big enough for me to feel every single movement yet, but Im really worried as normally by this time I have felt my baby move. I normally feel it first thing in the morning and several times throughout the day and also several times in the evening, but so far today I havent felt anything at all - not a peep. I relaxed in bed for a bit this morning before going to work, had a hot drink, had a cold drink, ate something - still nothing. The last time I felt a movement was between 7-7:30pm yesterday. I cant get home until 5pm to use my doppler I really hope I find a heartbeat when I use it or feel something before then as Im starting to panic this is really unusual as Ive felt the baby move in this sort of pattern for the last 3 weeks every single day and now nothing? Did anyone else get this?
Sorry for going on!
xxx
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Ive now worked out that when Im busy and walking/moving around a lot, the baby will hardly move or not move at all all day. When ive had a lazy day it moves like crazy.
dont worry, it may just be having a sleepy day.
I bumped into 'my first love' in my local supermarket this morning down an aisle. I stopped and said ''hi ya'', he looked at me, didnt smile, just grunted ''alright''' and walked off.
I stood there shocked. I was with this guy for over 4 1/2 years. I lost my virginity to him and he was my first love.
Ive only seen him once since we split up and that was at a mutual friends wedding. I went over to say hi and he looked at me with a so called puzzled look and said ''its Lucie isnt it?''
grrrr I could have punched him.
I knew then that I shouldnt bother with him, but why has be bothered me again? Im deliriously happy with my husband who I have been with for over 9 years and have no feelings whatsoever for this guy. I dumped him.
38+3
Lisa xxx
18+1
Im 24 weeks today and some days I hardly feel anything and others shes kicking like mad. It might be to do with the position of your placenta as if its anterior (like mine) it means its at the front so sometimes makes it harder to feel movements depending on the position of the baby.
xx
Try not to worry, I'm sure your LO is fine.
Mrs Floosy2 thats so weird we must be the ultimate bump buddies!
xxx