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xmas???
hi girls.
just wondering if your ex's sees your lo, when are they seeing the lo's at xmas??
i just know im gonna have major arguements over this with kirk!!
my problem is my ex's family are all VERY big drinkers esp at xmas, birthdays etc but they arent happy drunks they all get very arguementative (sp) and are all pretty nasty tbh so i would really rather kirk didnt see summer until the 27th so they can drink and fight eachother and do whatever and then sober up and have summer then but i know kirk is trying to get boxing day off work so he can have summer (ive never said anything about boxing day tho, he has just prosumed)
so i was just wondering what it "normal" for xmas arrangements??
just wondering if your ex's sees your lo, when are they seeing the lo's at xmas??
i just know im gonna have major arguements over this with kirk!!
my problem is my ex's family are all VERY big drinkers esp at xmas, birthdays etc but they arent happy drunks they all get very arguementative (sp) and are all pretty nasty tbh so i would really rather kirk didnt see summer until the 27th so they can drink and fight eachother and do whatever and then sober up and have summer then but i know kirk is trying to get boxing day off work so he can have summer (ive never said anything about boxing day tho, he has just prosumed)
so i was just wondering what it "normal" for xmas arrangements??
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me ex see's my oldest child from boxing day then for at least a few days but I do trust that she is in good hands, it has been this way for years. But if I were in your shoes and my ex's family were big drinkers then I would be thinking twice. Ask now what he thinks is going to happen over xmas then it gives you plenty of time to thrash out details. If he does insist on having Summer on Boxing day then tell him that you want her back at tea time or boxing day doesnt happen. Remeber that you are well within your rights to tell him that he cant have her until the 27th as you dont like his family drinking around her and Im sure if you seeked legal advcie then they would surley back you. Find out now tho as it will spoil your xmas if you leave it too late. Hope it goes well!!!
i cant go to kirks as he lives with his mum and we would probably kill each other if we were in the same room!! im just gonna tell kirk he can have summer xmas eve until 4pm and the 27th all day and over night if he doesnt like tough im not letting summer go there when they will all be drunk nutters and not looking after her properly!
kirk hasnt brought it up since so i dont know weather to leave it or txt him?? i might txt him over the weekend if he doesnt say anything on friday when he picks summer up....
ive just been really naughty and logged into his play.com account and he recently has brought 3 new playstaion 3 games which cost ??80..... nothing changes!! lol
we only split last week so it's pretty easy this yr, subsequent years might be more awkward coz i'd like to take jason dwon to see his great grandparents n they live 300miles away which could cause some arguments!!