sister is 9wks pregnant, freaking out + told me, now what?
Hi ladies, i don't know what to do. My sister is 4months off turning 21, in her final year at uni and on christmas eve did a hpt + it was positive. She has been with the dad, also in final year at uni, since may this year. She told him xmas eve and his opinion was v.clear. "Get a termination as having the baby wil ruin and change both our lives drastically + its not fair on the baby 2bring it into the world not wantd without proper support." my sister was in shock + doesnt know what she wants and whilst it isnt the ideal situation 4them, i know how she feels about abortions + deep down i believe she does want 2keep it. I guess what i am asking ladies is how can i support her without affecting her choice? I am finding this extremely hard as have had an early mc sept 08 + no joy ttc since. I am almost 27 + so want our own family which is why this is so hard! Sorry for the long post, any advice will be greatly received. Hope u had a lovely christmas x x x