Miscarriage at 21 weeks
this breaks my heart to write this but I need to talk to women who have experienced similar things to me.
so last Monday I had my scan everything was fine a healthy baby, friday morning I woke up and my waters broke I was taken to hospital where they sat me in a room and I was pretty much just a waiting miscarriage, Sunday I woke up after a night full of pain and being injected with drugs I got up to go for a wee where I gave birth to a beautiful little girl, but at 21 weeks her lungs were not developed enough to survive.
ive had no explanation of why all of this happened but my theory is the whole pregnancy ive been ill with colds infections and everything else, I had this cold for a month that I went to the doctor knowing it was more she said it was just a cough and left me to get on with it not once was I given antibiotics, when the hospital tested me bloods they said my infection level was high. So I'm guessing I was just too ill to carry her? I'm so confused ive no problems at all