Is it ok to call a pregnant person fat?... especially knowing their struggles?
I adore my family and my marital family equally but all of them seem to think its funny or acceptable to call me fat during this pregnancy. I have suffered with an eating disorder since i was 15 (im now 32) and was clinically diagnosed with bulimia last year and had a stint on hospital it got so bad. I have really turned a corner since then and have never felt better that once i discovered i was expecting it was even more motivation to get back on track. Im so proud of myself BUT now im heavily pregnant my family and extended family all think its ok to call me names like "fat cow" "shes as far gone as you n shes no where near as fat as you" "u definitely dont watch that your eating now look at the size of you"
Its very hard not to slip back into the old ways but when i say something im just being overly sensitive. Am i right in feeling this or do i need to chill out?