Thanks honey I know just what you mean the excat same thing happened to us last night. I wanted it last night he did not and we had a little fight last night went to bed with ou backs to one another and was funny with each other all morning though we had that chat at lunch time and things are much better now.
Fiona, I try to snuggle up to my DH and start kissing him (sorry tmi although not crude), he then grabs me and gives me a big hug and says goodnight. I try a bit more and he says babe I'm not in the mood and I'm tired. I say it might be a good time (no idea) and he says it might be tomorrow, gggrrr. That's happened a few times and ends in me having a right huff. I think he hugs me to keep me at bay!!! Men can be funny can't they?
K - I dressed up on valentines (ages ago now but 1st time in ages) and it worked but we made a fuss of it being that day etc so hard to do too often. I'd be really upset if he turned me down after I'd made the effort and know that he probably would if he didn't fancy it. Might try the toys and porn next month, hell I'll try anything, just need to convince him! If next month doesn't go well then I'll have a talk with him but it's tricky as it can add more pressure. He also wants a new job and is super stressed with that but that's ongoing so can't change that. Maybe I'll aim for 3 times a week and just hope we can keep it up for the month. I'm due to test again maybe Sat but doubt we've done it so like to think of the next month to try to maintain some kind of pma.
It's funny really coz when we do manage to BD he is really keen to make sure I get the pillows under and stay in the air etc, just hard to get to that point, LOL. Maybe in a couple of months I'll try OPK's again (-ve's last time) and just buy loads and test everyday all month. Just hope my stupid cycle settles so I can work back 14 ish days and focus BD'ing more then. Have you tried OPK's?
My hubby is the same getting him to do it is hard work but one he is doing it he loves it and always says afterwards I dont know whats wrong with me I love doing this but then we are at the same place another couple of days later?
Oh well I would so give the porn ago it does help and thr toys is just something new you know.
cant they just, there have been a few times when I would kiss him and all the rest of it and he would just lay there with his eyes shut. what was all that about? its so frustrating. Lucky for him whenever he comes on to me we have sex so hes not often left frustrated. I tried to talk to him this morning about last night to say I think i was ov so if we want a baby it would have been perfect timing but he moaned at me. He said he was too tired and I should have come on to him if I really wanted it. Then he went on that I have no clue as to when I ov & I cant read my body at all. Well I have more of a clue than you mate! x x
Oh right no i have not started to use them as this is our first month of trying i thought i would see how it went?
I know what you mean Hubby is the same he will go about 4 day and then wants abit so he is happy and then wait another few days they don;t get it that women i think have a higher sex drive and that we need pleasing just as much.
Oh man how i wish we could just do it all by outselves now that would be intresting LOL
K-Ovulation Prediction Kits, tbh though I've only tried them once and never got a +ve so got even more stressed. You also have to not drink and hold your wee for hrs so that's annoying too. With the lack of cm to add to it I don't know if I even O. May give them another go as it would be fab if I got a +ve. Bot like the hpts though, you get addicted to poas and then feel shite afterwards! Loads of women have luck with them though so maybe worth a go at some point if you haven't already.
Fiona- Slap your DH, LOL. If my hubby said I had no clue about my body then I'd burst into tears and then attack him, LOL. He'd be right but you don't need your nearest and dearest to point it out. Ignoring you is also a nightmare and then to say you should be the one to try it on, er hello! Mines the same and I agree that it should be a two way thing. I have as much luck reading my cycle as I do with reading my DH, both bloody confusing and irratic, LOL.
porky - you made me laugh out loud then, lucky oh isnt here otherwise he would have asked whats so funny. Its the bit when you said "burst into tears and then attack him" that tickles me I cant stop laughing at the thought in my head of how irratic I would look x
Forgot it's only your first month chick! I'm on my 5th month and tried OPK's on my 3rd. I think it'd be better if you went with the flow for a while as they stressed me out even more. I bet I'll be taking my temperature to chart in a few months, LOL now that will drive me bonkers.
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K xxx
It's funny really coz when we do manage to BD he is really keen to make sure I get the pillows under and stay in the air etc, just hard to get to that point, LOL. Maybe in a couple of months I'll try OPK's again (-ve's last time) and just buy loads and test everyday all month. Just hope my stupid cycle settles so I can work back 14 ish days and focus BD'ing more then. Have you tried OPK's?
My hubby is the same getting him to do it is hard work but one he is doing it he loves it and always says afterwards I dont know whats wrong with me I love doing this but then we are at the same place another couple of days later?
Oh well I would so give the porn ago it does help
K xxx
I tried to talk to him this morning about last night to say I think i was ov so if we want a baby it would have been perfect timing but he moaned at me. He said he was too tired and I should have come on to him if I really wanted it. Then he went on that I have no clue as to when I ov & I cant read my body at all. Well I have more of a clue than you mate! x x
I know what you mean Hubby is the same he will go about 4 day and then wants abit so he is happy and then wait another few days they don;t get it that women i think have a higher sex drive and that we need pleasing just as much.
Oh man how i wish we could just do it all by outselves now that would be intresting LOL
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Fiona- Slap your DH, LOL. If my hubby said I had no clue about my body then I'd burst into tears and then attack him, LOL. He'd be right but you don't need your nearest and dearest to point it out. Ignoring you is also a nightmare and then to say you should be the one to try it on, er hello! Mines the same and I agree that it should be a two way thing. I have as much luck reading my cycle as I do with reading my DH, both bloody confusing and irratic, LOL.