laura, i am so sorry hun!! i could just cry for you!! im at a lost for words hun all i can say is im so sorry! i know how much you wanted this. *huge hugs*
Just wanted to echo everyone else. I'm so sorry Laujai. I think you're plan of just being a bit careless without thinking too much about it sounds like a good one. Wish there was more I could say.
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*huge hugs*
Tak care, x x x