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do u think it is right what my hubby is doing?
ryt, my hubby is in iraq n is rytin 2 a girl from his home town whom he does not know of. she knows all about his family except me and the baby. she knows about lot of things except me n the baby and all my hubby says is she dint ask. and he also has a profile on cheekyflirt.com which you can guess is a dating website. so i played him back at his own game and made one up, but because i got a lot of attention on this website he went mad, saying i was playin tit4tat, so after a long think i got rid of my web profile. he now says why should he stop with the profile and writing to this girl?i have lad mates he says but my lad mates arent strangers and i don nt kee intouch with them. what would you lot sugest i do? he home in 4weeks. please help x J
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I would email her letting her know that he has a wife & child copying him in as well. If she isn't aware of his family situation then this will probably make her see him for what he is. (if she was an even semi decent person) I would also rethink the relationship as I wouldn't want to be with someone so sneaky & underhanded & who had such little respect for me. And would make that crystal clear to him. Then see how he is acting when he gets home.
But if for a second you think this is normal or acceptable or can even be excused for any reason then it would explain why he thinks he can get away with it.
Sorry, that isnt the most sympathetic answer I know but I have a zero tolerence on anything like this.