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1ww anyone?
Hi ladies,
I'm just going in to my 1ww and am driving myself insane with ss ( so wondered if there is anyone else doing this or is it just me? :x
I thought maybe we could share the symptoms we're sure we've got (but in my case are probably just in my head :lol and anything else we want to talk/maon about
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I'm just going in to my 1ww and am driving myself insane with ss ( so wondered if there is anyone else doing this or is it just me? :x
I thought maybe we could share the symptoms we're sure we've got (but in my case are probably just in my head :lol and anything else we want to talk/maon about
xxx
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I'm in 1ww and its driving me CRAZY! i'm trying to balance PMA with reality, so I'm currently swinging between blind optimism (spotting all kind of symptoms, working out EDD, thinking about how I will tell everyone yada yada) to crushing pessamism (like how disappointed I will be if/when AF arrives)!!!
I reckon I'm about 8DPO and have fuller, achy boobs, feel shattered and over the last day or so I've had a strange ache, like a stitch, in my lower abdomen. so of course I'm been getting exciting, hoping it might be implantation pains!! I need to get a grip! I'm going to feel like such an idiot it AF arrives next week!
I've had long irregular cycles so its been hard to predict ovulation in advance, but this time we BD'd just before ov so I can't help but feel hopefully.
I've a bit of a dilemma too - I'm going on a hen weekend on friday and i want to avoid alcohol in the hope that I might get a BFP when i test but its going to be really hard to avoid drinking the whole weekend without drawing attention to it. plus my mum's going to be on the hen weekend and she's more of an eagle eyed symptom spotter than me, so I'm sure she'll clock on but i wouldn't want to get her hopes up before I've tested - eek?
so, your not alone, although after all my rambling you might wish you were!!!!:roll:
lb x
It's so hard balancing PMA and reality isn't it?! I really thought I'd done it last month as AF was 3 whole days late and so I was gutted when it did arrive so I'm trying really hard not to end up like that again.
BUT.....
My (.)(.) feel heavy, I have a funny taste in my mouth (which I also had last month which tasted like a shiny 10p, this months it's different) and for the last 3 nights, I have woken up from VERY vivid dreams. I'm also shattered, but having said that I am just getting over swine flu!
Erm, with regards to excuse, could you say you're on antibitoics for a water infection - people don't tend to ask for details about this
When is your AF due?
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P.S. Forgot to say, I'm 7DPO
I think I will claim to have a water infection - might even do some groundwork and begin to mention it to mother in advance - ooh the web of lies we weave!!
AF is due monday so I might POAS on friday (although I know I really shouldn't!) . If you are 1 day behind me then you're AF will be due the beginning of next week too?
lb xx
My AF is due next Wednesday I think, but as my cycle's have been a little erratic, so going with this day as it's the furthest way.
Do you think you should really test littleb (coming from the woman who is considering buying some cheapie tests from Amazon!)
I'm with you MaxiMum on wanting to know NOW, I hate this waiting game, never mind the fact that I'm a VERY impaitent person anyway!
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We know it's not even going to show until at least 12DPO, which confuses me when the tests say they can detect in 4 days before AF is due, as that's usually around 10DOP ? ?
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Blue veins is quite a good symptom I think, hope so!
I'm not going to test until Thursday, as it will definetly be late then (beacuse it WON'T arrive of course!)
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(.)(.) are perfectly normal not sore at all no extra cm in fact the opposite !!! Oh & im getting really short tempered, teary & ratty as I normally do before AF shows - so all in all not looking good for me is it!!!
We off to eurodisney in 5 weeks so don't think I'll be too disappointed, & will give it a miss for 1 month cause I'll be able to go on more rides!!!
Best of luck though girls? When are ye testing?? I Might do a cheapie Friday morning if i can hold out!
KJx
they were pg.
I know right well I'll give in & prob will do one everyday until AF arrives!!
KJx
PMA PMA PMA!!
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babahunny, Saturday, that's not very far away at all - I'm soo jealous! Don't worry about how much you did or didn't BD, it only takes one little swimmer!
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perhaps there is strength in numbers and I'll be able to resist if I know that others are too
xx PMA to all of you lovely ladies
EPP - you're on!! When should she be due?
xxx
Can I join you all on your 1ww? I'm on month 25, with 2 m/c in the past 11 months.
11DPO and already caved and got BFN on 9 and 10DPO. I just have no will-power and always test early just on the off chance it's worked. Have absolutely no symptoms though.
Spent the whole day on a course, sat a metre away from a smug heavily pg person, who kept rubbing her bump! :x
I'm a bit strange & have a different view on testing early than everyone else For me the whole waiting, waiting, waiting game doesnt sit well I'm soooooo impatient so i figure if i did hold out & got BFN it would have been torture for nothing, but if i keep testing early well early as in theres a chance of a BFP not like 6dpo or anything then i'm not torturing myself & wont be so dispapointed to see AF as i'll have had a few BFN by that stage & used to the fact that we didnt do it does that make any sense to ANYONE else or just me????????
when i say impatient i mean i want everything now now now i'm so impulsive its a major thing for me (& not good either) not in a spoiled stamp my feet kind of way though!! I just find waiting for anything really difficult even the hour between 4 & 5pm KILLS me everyday!!!
KJxx
Luckystar, please feel free to join us! Sorry about your 2mc, I can't imagine how you must feel, hopefully month 25 is the one for your sticky BFP!
Katyjo - I'll let you in to a secret, I also have the same opinion on testing I always think that I'd rather see AF after the BFN rather than just AF. BUT as I've been testing earlier on the other months, I'm deciding to do something different this month and not test
xxx
Luckystar, please feel free to join us! Sorry about your 2mc, I can't imagine how you must feel, hopefully month 25 is the one for your sticky BFP!
Katyjo - I'll let you in to a secret, I also have the same opinion on testing I always think that I'd rather see AF after the BFN rather than just AF. BUT as I've been testing earlier on the other months, I'm deciding to do something different this month and not test
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