That night at night not mean anything @x-Alice-x you’re not out until AF shows and really this early on you’re better using fmu (first morning urine) as it’s less diluted and you will get a more accurate reading. I have everything crossed for you xxx
Ok urghh I feel super down now. Don’t want to tell OH yet. Today is CD 30 and AF was expected today. I only used a POAS and I guess it wasn’t FMU but kind of got my hopes up today
@LucieLu I am so sorry it’s so painful and I really hope your ok
Almost 2 years of TTC and it seems to just get harder. You’d think I’d get used to BNFs by now but each and every cycle I seem to get my hopes up more and more. I took a ‘sad day’ today. Literally been lying in bed with my dog all day. Tomorrow I will get up, go for a run, put my make up on, go to work, socialise, try to be a happy partner at home and try to be positive. I really pray I don’t give up and let this take over my life and I wish that for you and everyone else too xxxx
@LucieLu sorry to read that, I know how painful it is. Be kind to yourself and allow yourself to have your feelings. Then when you’re ready you can try again.
@x-Alice-x have you thought anymore about fertility treatment options? Xxx
Thank you both i seem to ovulate and all checks show that my reproductive system should be fine so the only option is IVF really. It’s something the OH and I said we would discuss in the new year if nothing happened naturally. Obviously it’s expensive and I’m very worried about the additional pressure and what it will do to my mental health but i am willing to try. We have seen much cheaper options abroad. iui would most likely be redundant on me but was there any other treatment that someone would recommend?
@LucieLu I’m so sorry , big hugs for you too 💗💗 it’s thd most stressful time and not everyone understands as , if like me, you’re surrounded by people who get pregnant so easily
Anyone else get fed up of people asking them when they’re having a baby ? People tell me I should hurry up before my little one is too old or I should time it right with work. So frustrating! 😢😡 xxx
@x-Alice-x I have some friends who have been through ivf. Some successfully, some not. It is a stressful time, definitely, but when it works it is obviously a life changer.
Just popped in to see how it goes @x-Alice-x! So sorry to her you had pfn as well. And you wrote such an inspiring post to me. So I owe you xxx Don’t get your hopes down. Let’s go for Orgasm October and make it count! It’s going to be our month! Btw I am looking for other options too haha. Not sure about ivf yet... trying to find something else. I guess if we pass 2 years TTC then ivf might be only option... anyways... let’s stay positive! Fingers crossed for Orgasm October
@Latte96 i am also preparing myself for ivf as after my hycosy scan they are suspecting endometriosis and i have a dollow on appointment on 11th oct in this concern so i may have to get ready for laprascopy and ivf. Are you in UK? Let me know where you get on this investigation.
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Today is CD 30 and AF was expected today.
I only used a POAS and I guess it wasn’t FMU but kind of got my hopes up today
Almost 2 years of TTC and it seems to just get harder. You’d think I’d get used to BNFs by now but each and every cycle I seem to get my hopes up more and more.
I took a ‘sad day’ today. Literally been lying in bed with my dog all day. Tomorrow I will get up, go for a run, put my make up on, go to work, socialise, try to be a happy partner at home and try to be positive. I really pray I don’t give up and let this take over my life and I wish that for you and everyone else too xxxx
@x-Alice-x have you thought anymore about fertility treatment options? Xxx
@LucieLu I'm sorry for you also. Gutted!
Both of you allow yourself to catch your breath and take time out if needed. It's such a difficult journey to be on.
Hugs to you both xx
i seem to ovulate and all checks show that my reproductive system should be fine so the only option is IVF really. It’s something the OH and I said we would discuss in the new year if nothing happened naturally.
Obviously it’s expensive and I’m very worried about the additional pressure and what it will do to my mental health but i am willing to try.
We have seen much cheaper options abroad.
iui would most likely be redundant on me but was there any other treatment that someone would recommend?
it’s thd most stressful time and not everyone understands as , if like me, you’re surrounded by people who get pregnant so easily
Anyone else get fed up of people asking them when they’re having a baby ? People tell me I should hurry up before my little one is too old or I should time it right with work. So frustrating! 😢😡 xxx
What do the options abroad look like? X
Btw I am looking for other options too haha. Not sure about ivf yet... trying to find something else. I guess if we pass 2 years TTC then ivf might be only option... anyways... let’s stay positive!
Fingers crossed for Orgasm October
Are you in UK? Let me know where you get on this investigation.