Me too, Mummytolily. I am kinda bummed out today, not least because I am still having odd feelings and other symptoms of preg. I am going to test again in a few days. How are you today? how is Lily?
I bet you are ☹️ It sucks especially when you're late and then nothing! Hopefully something happens in the next few days! Keep us updateD! Lily's been loads better today, her cough has calmed down loads! She's been quite moany though but I think that's from lack of sleep, shes slept quite a lot through out the day but at night time she's been waking up quite a lot, hope tonight she has a really good sleep and wakes up really refreshed in the morning but we will see! I'm really well actually, I've had such a good weekend, despite lily being ill it's been nice having some family time as oh worked last weekend, I've even managed to buy 6 Christmas presents this weekend I'm glad to have started early this year xD how has your weekend been?
It really is, it's five weeks today since the scan that confirmed the cp, and i am feeling pretty crappy on top of physically feeling off, and my partner complaining about my mood has made my mood worse, lol.
Mum glad to hear Lily is feeling better, is always so hard when they are ill. Hopefully it will start clearing properly soon and she can get back to herself. It's also good to hear you are feeling a little brighter and got family time, it really does help to just relax around loved ones
Oh whale chick it's horrible isn't it, i really hope you feel better soon ☹️ I still feel really down about it too, as much as I try to take my mind off it, it's so hard to process ☹️ As much as I'd be gutted if I see a negative pregnancy test I think id feel equally as bad for a positive as well ☹️ I really hope she gets back to her normal happy self soon, I did really enjoy family time over the weekend but i saw so many pregnant people yesterday & this morning would of been my 16 eeek midwife appt, and the Saturday just gone I would of found out the gender so it's been a tough weekend at the same time, im hoping now these dates have passed i will get start getting back to normal properly, my best friend has just found out she's pregnant as well and as much as I am over the moon for her I can't help but think a few weeks ago that it was me and now I'm starting from square one again not really knowing when ill ovulate or When af is due, I'm thinking maybe I'll ovulate on Wednesday which means I won't be able to test really until the 11th, I already have two first response& 2 cb digitals waiting to be used but who knows when
Sorry to hear you didn't get the bfp you wanted Whale chick you'll get there
not far behind you then mummy to lily I think I ovulate around Sunday luckily this time I can work some time with my husband over the next week or so
i kept thinking about that too my weeks went up on Monday so I kept thinking about how far id be luckily I've lost count now but it would be around 7 months give it take a few weeks
Let's hope We both get bfp's around the same time Mrs Rees! I've already worked out id be due around 20th June 😂 I'm so sad it's unreal 😂 Me and oh have been umm doing it 😂 Every other day since i had the go ahead to start trying last Monday so hopefully weve covered ourselves for this month, will do it tomorrow night and carry on until I come on I guess! Just incase! It's awful isn't it, when did you sort of lose count? I'm hoping I do soon because I feel like I'm torturing myself at the moment
After the 20 week mark really and i think I only really remembered that because I had a stupid email alert that I thought I'd canceled, I'd been really busy at the time so I guess it kind of went to back of mind, it was always there I just didn't think to remember how many weeks just looked now and I'd be 30 weeks today
Oh mrs Rees! i think it's normal to want to know & check, I can't imagine it ever getting any easier ☹️ How far along we're you when you mc'd? Well hopefully this is our month all of ours and we all have successful pregnancies and live happily ever after... we can dream right ☹️
I found out at 9 weeks but baby had stopped developing at 6 weeks and 2 days...the worst of it for me was I think I knew but trusted everyone else and not my instincts then i think it hurt more....I'd stopped having any nausea and sickness so I had a feeling something wasn't right
I know exactly how you feel with that! I trusted everyone as well id had scans at 9 weeks and 10 weeks from bleeding and everything was fine and my 12 week was fine But I knew something was wrong I didn't have 1 tiny bit of blood with lily but the funny thing is I hadn't had any bleeding from 11 weeks so then I started to feel like everything was genuinely fine how wrong was I! I will never trust a 12 week scan ever again, I'm hoping when I eventually get pregnant again i hope I have a scan more like 13/14 weeks rather than 12 weeks, I think I'd pay for a private scan for about 10 weeks and just have to pray, and we need to learn from our mistakes and trust our instincts! At the end of the day they're in our bodies no one else's
Exactly but now I think I'm going to be panicking all the time about if I'm being sick enough or wanting symptoms I'm definalty gunna pay for extra scans too
just gotta try and get. Pregnant first I really didn't think it would be this hard surely at 23 it should be easier than this
Yeah I think you'll just have to try your best to stay as chilled out as possible, I never really get any pregnancy symptoms, I was sick once with lily and had a tiny bit of nausea last time and certain things didn't smell right but that is literally it, I was just suspicious because of the bleeding which they said was due to cervical ectropian but I think my body was trying to tell me something wasn't right, I don't know about you but at my local maternity hospital (which is meant to be a really good one) when you have a scan you cant hear the heartbeat or see how fast it's beating? ive read on here about people hearing the heartbeat in an ultrasound, yeah I'll definitely be paying for private scans, I'd love to pay for complete private care as I've felt really let down by the NHS this time
my only scan I had there wasn't a heartbeat so I'm not sure what our unit is like but I will ask the question next time if I get to a 12 week scan so that I'm not freaking out If I don't hear something straight away
yeah I'd love to go private care but money wont allow that
I'm gunna start ovulation kits tomorrow just to see if my dates are right
I never asked with Lily's scans because i was just so amazed by everything and I was only 20 so I was worried about asking anything 😂 I'm feeling I may have ovulated yesterday but I'm not sure why I think that 😂 Hopefully you have got your dates right xx
You should have covered yourself then hopefully! im so scared that I'll never be pregnant again, I just keep thinking don't think about it but I really can't not it's always on my mind all day long!
I have had the day from hell, first of all lily smears the whole window with sudocreme whilst I was brushing my teeth then at lunch I was washing up and she tips a whole packet of skips on the floor and tips her drink on top of them (soggy skips trodden Into the carpet) then she wets herself (which she hasnt done in like 6 weeks now) then when she's having a nap I wash my hair and my straighteners blow up so I now have frizzy hair for work tomorrow 😭 (shes only 3 but she is so advanced for her age, she knows exactly what she's doing)
Please help before i have a breakdown! Sooo as i said before had real bad heartburn, on top of that my breasts feel very full and im constantly burping (this ones always been a symptom for me). So i did a test at work yday, one negative, one came up with a very distinctive line then as it dryed out dissappeared, OH says he cant see it but i still can, cant even get a picture as its that faint...debated paying 14 pound for early test but that just seems ridic! At a party tonight and i dunno what to do!. Im 11dpo due on friday sicka this crap every month xx
Oh bobble how frustrating. i know what you mean about being sick of this crap every month.
if u think u saw a faint line I'd avoid drinking at the party jus in case and do another test in a few days. Better being safe than sorry.
Rach83 have you had your appointment for the specialist yet? I've had mine through now and going on 16th oct so not too long to wait. Fingers crossed I get my BFP before then!!
Ah bobble how frustrating like momcat said just try and wait it out a couple if days and test again your right though this crap every month is rediculous it's like the harder you try the harder it becomes and the whole "when you stop trying it will just happen" is a load of crap too when your constantly aware of your cycle
oh mummy to lily youve defo had your hands full today haha
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Me too, Mummytolily. I am kinda bummed out today, not least because I am still having odd feelings and other symptoms of preg. I am going to test again in a few days. How are you today? how is Lily?
I bet you are ☹️ It sucks especially when you're late and then nothing! Hopefully something happens in the next few days! Keep us updateD! Lily's been loads better today, her cough has calmed down loads! She's been quite moany though but I think that's from lack of sleep, shes slept quite a lot through out the day but at night time she's been waking up quite a lot, hope tonight she has a really good sleep and wakes up really refreshed in the morning but we will see! I'm really well actually, I've had such a good weekend, despite lily being ill it's been nice having some family time as oh worked last weekend, I've even managed to buy 6 Christmas presents this weekend I'm glad to have started early this year xD how has your weekend been?
It really is, it's five weeks today since the scan that confirmed the cp, and i am feeling pretty crappy on top of physically feeling off, and my partner complaining about my mood has made my mood worse, lol.
Mum glad to hear Lily is feeling better, is always so hard when they are ill. Hopefully it will start clearing properly soon and she can get back to herself. It's also good to hear you are feeling a little brighter and got family time, it really does help to just relax around loved ones
Oh whale chick it's horrible isn't it, i really hope you feel better soon ☹️ I still feel really down about it too, as much as I try to take my mind off it, it's so hard to process ☹️ As much as I'd be gutted if I see a negative pregnancy test I think id feel equally as bad for a positive as well ☹️ I really hope she gets back to her normal happy self soon, I did really enjoy family time over the weekend but i saw so many pregnant people yesterday & this morning would of been my 16 eeek midwife appt, and the Saturday just gone I would of found out the gender so it's been a tough weekend at the same time, im hoping now these dates have passed i will get start getting back to normal properly, my best friend has just found out she's pregnant as well and as much as I am over the moon for her I can't help but think a few weeks ago that it was me and now I'm starting from square one again not really knowing when ill ovulate or When af is due, I'm thinking maybe I'll ovulate on Wednesday which means I won't be able to test really until the 11th, I already have two first response& 2 cb digitals waiting to be used but who knows when
Sorry to hear you didn't get the bfp you wanted Whale chick you'll get there
not far behind you then mummy to lily I think I ovulate around Sunday luckily this time I can work some time with my husband over the next week or so
i kept thinking about that too my weeks went up on Monday so I kept thinking about how far id be luckily I've lost count now but it would be around 7 months give it take a few weeks
Let's hope We both get bfp's around the same time Mrs Rees! I've already worked out id be due around 20th June 😂 I'm so sad it's unreal 😂 Me and oh have been umm doing it 😂 Every other day since i had the go ahead to start trying last Monday so hopefully weve covered ourselves for this month, will do it tomorrow night and carry on until I come on I guess! Just incase! It's awful isn't it, when did you sort of lose count? I'm hoping I do soon because I feel like I'm torturing myself at the moment
After the 20 week mark really and i think I only really remembered that because I had a stupid email alert that I thought I'd canceled, I'd been really busy at the time so I guess it kind of went to back of mind, it was always there I just didn't think to remember how many weeks just looked now and I'd be 30 weeks today
Oh mrs Rees! i think it's normal to want to know & check, I can't imagine it ever getting any easier ☹️ How far along we're you when you mc'd? Well hopefully this is our month all of ours and we all have successful pregnancies and live happily ever after... we can dream right ☹️
I found out at 9 weeks but baby had stopped developing at 6 weeks and 2 days...the worst of it for me was I think I knew but trusted everyone else and not my instincts then i think it hurt more....I'd stopped having any nausea and sickness so I had a feeling something wasn't right
I know exactly how you feel with that! I trusted everyone as well id had scans at 9 weeks and 10 weeks from bleeding and everything was fine and my 12 week was fine But I knew something was wrong I didn't have 1 tiny bit of blood with lily but the funny thing is I hadn't had any bleeding from 11 weeks so then I started to feel like everything was genuinely fine how wrong was I! I will never trust a 12 week scan ever again, I'm hoping when I eventually get pregnant again i hope I have a scan more like 13/14 weeks rather than 12 weeks, I think I'd pay for a private scan for about 10 weeks and just have to pray, and we need to learn from our mistakes and trust our instincts! At the end of the day they're in our bodies no one else's
Exactly but now I think I'm going to be panicking all the time about if I'm being sick enough or wanting symptoms I'm definalty gunna pay for extra scans too
just gotta try and get. Pregnant first I really didn't think it would be this hard surely at 23 it should be easier than this
Yeah I think you'll just have to try your best to stay as chilled out as possible, I never really get any pregnancy symptoms, I was sick once with lily and had a tiny bit of nausea last time and certain things didn't smell right but that is literally it, I was just suspicious because of the bleeding which they said was due to cervical ectropian but I think my body was trying to tell me something wasn't right, I don't know about you but at my local maternity hospital (which is meant to be a really good one) when you have a scan you cant hear the heartbeat or see how fast it's beating? ive read on here about people hearing the heartbeat in an ultrasound, yeah I'll definitely be paying for private scans, I'd love to pay for complete private care as I've felt really let down by the NHS this time
my only scan I had there wasn't a heartbeat so I'm not sure what our unit is like but I will ask the question next time if I get to a 12 week scan so that I'm not freaking out If I don't hear something straight away
yeah I'd love to go private care but money wont allow that
I'm gunna start ovulation kits tomorrow just to see if my dates are right
I never asked with Lily's scans because i was just so amazed by everything and I was only 20 so I was worried about asking anything 😂 I'm feeling I may have ovulated yesterday but I'm not sure why I think that 😂 Hopefully you have got your dates right xx
I'm hoping so will just dtd at least every other day starting tomorrow and ot in the mornings too
You should have covered yourself then hopefully! im so scared that I'll never be pregnant again, I just keep thinking don't think about it but I really can't not it's always on my mind all day long!
Whale chick has af showed yet?
I have had the day from hell, first of all lily smears the whole window with sudocreme whilst I was brushing my teeth then at lunch I was washing up and she tips a whole packet of skips on the floor and tips her drink on top of them (soggy skips trodden Into the carpet) then she wets herself (which she hasnt done in like 6 weeks now) then when she's having a nap I wash my hair and my straighteners blow up so I now have frizzy hair for work tomorrow 😭 (shes only 3 but she is so advanced for her age, she knows exactly what she's doing)
Please help before i have a breakdown! Sooo as i said before had real bad heartburn, on top of that my breasts feel very full and im constantly burping (this ones always been a symptom for me). So i did a test at work yday, one negative, one came up with a very distinctive line then as it dryed out dissappeared, OH says he cant see it but i still can, cant even get a picture as its that faint...debated paying 14 pound for early test but that just seems ridic! At a party tonight and i dunno what to do!. Im 11dpo due on friday
sicka this crap every month xx
Oh bobble how frustrating. i know what you mean about being sick of this crap every month.
if u think u saw a faint line I'd avoid drinking at the party jus in case and do another test in a few days. Better being safe than sorry.
Rach83 have you had your appointment for the specialist yet? I've had mine through now and going on 16th oct so not too long to wait. Fingers crossed I get my BFP before then!!
baby dust to u all xxxx
Ah bobble how frustrating like momcat said just try and wait it out a couple if days and test again your right though this crap every month is rediculous it's like the harder you try the harder it becomes and the whole "when you stop trying it will just happen" is a load of crap too when your constantly aware of your cycle
oh mummy to lily youve defo had your hands full today haha