Hi ladies, sorry I've not posted for a while but rest assured I have been following the chat.
welcome to all the newbies, I'm incredibly sorry for your losses but believe me you are in the best place, everyone is so lovely and helpful and this forum has definitely helped me.
congratulations to all the new bfp's, births and scans, absolutely LOVE seeing them
Apricot, I have to take credit for that peace of advise glad it helped, just need to take me own advise now lol!
AFM I am now 17w 3d and so far so good, I have an appointment tomorrow to see whether I will need to have a cervical stitch due to my lletz procedure, can't say I'm looking forward to it and im hoping I don't have to have one no matter how eat the procedure is. Struggling with what I think is sp, Nicky I'm sorry to hear you now have crutches for this even though tpure enjoying pregnancy sometimes you just think "have I not had enough bad luck"!
anyway hope everyone is doing as well as can be and sticky baby dust to all xxx
Sorry, I haven't had time to catch up on all the posts, the 7mo has a horrible cold so is keeping me busy.
Just wanted to say I am so so pleased to see so much positive news on this board recently. Bfps and lots of bump and baby news. Fantastic stuff!
Afm- AF arrived a few days ago but still in limbo due to the molar pregnancy. Just had bloods and urine taken today and the results should give me a bit more info about next steps and how long the follow up should be before we resume trying. It's awful but I am very tempted to ignore thrm and carry on trying anyway!
Hi guys unfortunately I miscarried 2 beautiful angels this year and me and my partner are trying to concieve again, I took a test today but not sure if it's faulty or not
This is the test a few minutes after
And this is the second one I've done
And these are them both together
Sorry for all the posts I would just love some opinions right now! X
Hi Hle fab news about how far you are.I do hope you don't need the stitch I think that's what scp friend had to have and it helped her which is fab.Whatever happens stay relaxed hun and good luck.Spd getting a bit worse in my groins but as long as lydia is fine and I can still get about I'm remaining positive but like you say we have been through enough.Good luck tomorrow x x
Zoevictoria so sorry for the loss of your Lil angels.Tests do look positive fx for you and congratulations x x
Aww it's hard if you have to wait Austin I understand I hated having to wait mine was for a scan to check all was ok to try again as I had terrible pain in stomach,back and pubic area for couple of months but all was clear thankfully.Good luck with trying again x x
It's so hard to be excited anymore I'm rather apprehensive about the whole thing but thank you for your replys everyone! I really do hope this is 3rd time lucky! X
Cberg- Huge congratulations, you really deserve it after all this time, im so happy for you xx
ZoeVictoria- Defo positive, Congrats and sorry for your 2 losses, fingers crossed for 3rd time lucky, sending you Sticky baby dust xx
AFM- Bit annoyed really, went to docs yesterday with partner to ask about having his sperm tested as he smokes and drinks and she totally turned it round on me, saying I was the problem and reason that it takes so long to get pregnant! RUDE! she told me that it 30% of couple a year to get pregnant and that they don't start investigating until you haven't conceived within 2 years, when I know this is wrong, and everywhere online says it's 80% within a year and they start investigating after a year, she said I shouldn't take vitamins and that I should stop charting and temping coz it means your less likely to fall pregnant! Everywhere I've seen says it's more chance of getting pregnant . I'm gonna do what I want to do, can't see the point of stopping charting coz I will still be doing it in my head lol. At least she said he could get his sperm tested though lol we will do that next week hopefully.
I'm now CD 15 and think ov was last night as I had the Ov pain and positive ov test the night before and yesterday morning. Dtd last night so hopefully sperm will meet egg lol, watch this space, I'm feeling good about this month Because of the timing xx
what a lovely supportive thread I've loved reading all the posts this morning and really full of so many positive stories Im glad I came across the post and I'm truly struggling
last Tuesday I went for my 12 week scan and they found no heartbeat me and my husband are truly devastated I had an 8 week scan thay showed correct dates and a strong heartbeat so trying to get my head around it all. I had medical management and in the end did not need the tablets as it had started naturally Im just struggling so much this was our first baby and I keep getting the usual it's very common to lose your first but it doesn't make this easier. I'm currently off work been signed off and I'm in such a bad place I just don't see things getting better i keep going through all kinds of thoughts it's my age I'm 31 and I'm overweight.
thank you for these threads for helping me realise I'm not along and good things do happen. x
This thread got me through it all. So sorry to hear of your loss I scanned at 7 weeks and saw heartbeat and then at 10 weeks it had stopped growing at the 7 week mark.
i am 36 and not overweight so you can't blame that. Chin up and hugs xxx it gets better xxx
I'm so pleased I've come across this thread it's really given me hope. I have got out of bed this week yet and I feel like such a failure but it's really helped me this morning.
I stayed in bed for a week and read through all of what was 9 parts of this thread. I have learned so much on here and looking forward to my next one. Am on cycle 3 now after the MC in July. I had an emergency ERPC after I was taken in by ambulance and kept in for 48 hours as had a big infection. Not a pleasant time xxx
it does get better though. Just make sure that before trying again you test negative on a PG test so you can ensure that any tests moving forward pick up on a new pregnancy. You may not be thinking about that yet xxx
been so lovely to read all your stories sorry to those that have lost and big congratulations to those of you that have bfp and have birthed
well here's my story and was woundering if anyone can help..
i missed carried 28th August 16 it happened naturally and it was confirmed by scan.. Because it all naturally and I passed the hospital said I could try again as soon as I'm ready.. me na my husband spoke about it and agreed to nature take its course in other words no pressure just if we concieve we concieve.. Well I was due on yesterday i had back ache asnd was expecting my monthly but it still hasn't arrived I tested yday and it was negative but with the last one it took 10 days post my period due date to get the positive. Keep Feeling like pulling and tugging down there to my right side and yesterday my legs was really achey .
does anyone know if your periods taken longer to arrive after a miscarriage?
I had a scan on thursday as doctor wanted my ovaries and utreus check and the scanner looked very confused and kept asking me the date of my last period I don't by the results until Thursday
im going out my mind thinking maybe I've caught again but I just don't know.
Emma- welcome and Sorry for your loss, Fingers Crossed that you caught again! Keep us updated xx
ClaireB- welcome and sorry to hear about your loss. This thread had helped me so much. I didn't want to get out of bed either but my partner made me! i went through weeks of crying and the only thing that made me feel better was reading the stories of the women on this thread and seeing them one by one get there BFP's again, I read all the parts that were available and it was like therapy. I still cry when I come on every month for 10mins. I try to look for the good instead of the bad. every time I come on I tell myself 'at least my body and mind is getting stronger and more likely to cope with another pregnancy' & ' at least it gives me another month to diet and save money' xx hope you BFP comes soon and you go on to have a healthy and happy pregnancy.
MMA- felt like crap when I left her and must of sounded like I'm in denial to my partner coz I was saying " She's wrong, She don't know what she's talking about" He was like "she's a doctor" . Anyway I got what I went for lol xx
ClaireB and Emma I am so sorry for your losses! Claire I had the same as you we found out at our 12 week scan that the baby had no heart beat, It is just devastating - I still cry about it a lot but I am starting to have more good days than bad days so it does start to get easier.
I am 26 and it happened to me so dont blame yourself, it just happens. Its hard not to blame yourself though, I have the most irrational fear that i will just not be able to have a healthy baby and its definitely making me crazy! I am on my first proper cycle now and think I ovulated a couple of days ago so now im just waiting till I can take a test.
Hopefully you will get BFP's soon and this group will definitely help, its helped me so much .
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Hi ladies, sorry I've not posted for a while but rest assured I have been following the chat.
welcome to all the newbies, I'm incredibly sorry for your losses but believe me you are in the best place, everyone is so lovely and helpful and this forum has definitely helped me.
congratulations to all the new bfp's, births and scans, absolutely LOVE seeing them
Apricot, I have to take credit for that peace of advise
glad it helped, just need to take me own advise now lol!
AFM I am now 17w 3d and so far so good, I have an appointment tomorrow to see whether I will need to have a cervical stitch due to my lletz procedure, can't say I'm looking forward to it and im hoping I don't have to have one no matter how eat the procedure is. Struggling with what I think is sp, Nicky I'm sorry to hear you now have crutches for this
even though tpure enjoying pregnancy sometimes you just think "have I not had enough bad luck"!
anyway hope everyone is doing as well as can be and sticky baby dust to all xxx
Hi ladies,
Sorry, I haven't had time to catch up on all the posts, the 7mo has a horrible cold so is keeping me busy.
Just wanted to say I am so so pleased to see so much positive news on this board recently. Bfps and lots of bump and baby news. Fantastic stuff!
Afm- AF arrived a few days ago but still in limbo due to the molar pregnancy. Just had bloods and urine taken today and the results should give me a bit more info about next steps and how long the follow up should be before we resume trying. It's awful but I am very tempted to ignore thrm and carry on trying anyway!
Hi guys unfortunately I miscarried 2 beautiful angels this year and me and my partner are trying to concieve again, I took a test today but not sure if it's faulty or not
This is the test a few minutes after
And this is the second one I've done
And these are them both together
Sorry for all the posts I would just love some opinions right now! X
Look positive to me.... congratulations xxx
Hi Zoe it looks very positive to me congratulations Hun xxxx
Definitely positive if AF is due try a clear blue:)
Congratulations x
Hi Hle fab news about how far you are.I do hope you don't need the stitch I think that's what scp friend had to have and it helped her which is fab.Whatever happens stay relaxed hun and good luck.Spd getting a bit worse in my groins but as long as lydia is fine and I can still get about I'm remaining positive but like you say we have been through enough.Good luck tomorrow x x
Zoevictoria so sorry for the loss of your Lil angels.Tests do look positive fx for you and congratulations x x
Aww it's hard if you have to wait Austin I understand I hated having to wait mine was for a scan to check all was ok to try again as I had terrible pain in stomach,back and pubic area for couple of months but all was clear thankfully.Good luck with trying again x x
It's so hard to be excited anymore I'm rather apprehensive about the whole thing but thank you for your replys everyone! I really do hope this is 3rd time lucky! X
Zoevictoria I know it's soooo hard to get excited and feel positive:(
Just enjoy the moment as best as you can and remember this is a brand new pregnancy:)
Take small steps forward reaching small milestones a week at a time:)
wishing you lots of luck and yes, 3rd time lucky!!🍀🍀🍀
Cberg- Huge congratulations, you really deserve it after all this time, im so happy for you xx
ZoeVictoria- Defo positive, Congrats and sorry for your 2 losses, fingers crossed for 3rd time lucky, sending you Sticky baby dust xx
AFM- Bit annoyed really, went to docs yesterday with partner to ask about having his sperm tested as he smokes and drinks and she totally turned it round on me, saying I was the problem and reason that it takes so long to get pregnant! RUDE! she told me that it 30% of couple a year to get pregnant and that they don't start investigating until you haven't conceived within 2 years, when I know this is wrong, and everywhere online says it's 80% within a year and they start investigating after a year, she said I shouldn't take vitamins and that I should stop charting and temping coz it means your less likely to fall pregnant! Everywhere I've seen says it's more chance of getting pregnant . I'm gonna do what I want to do, can't see the point of stopping charting coz I will still be doing it in my head lol. At least she said he could get his sperm tested though lol we will do that next week hopefully.
I'm now CD 15 and think ov was last night as I had the Ov pain and positive ov test the night before and yesterday morning. Dtd last night so hopefully sperm will meet egg lol, watch this space, I'm feeling good about this month Because of the timing xx
Sticmy baby dust to all xx
Very cheeky SCP I know it's 1 yr of trying if under 35 and 6months if over 35 as I've seen the specialist!!
(any age with 3 mcgs under your belt)
Tommys charity are trying to reduce the 3 mscgs now:)
hubby will have his swimmers checked once I've had 2 cycles at least on Tamoxifen
Morning.
what a lovely supportive thread I've loved reading all the posts this morning and really full of so many positive stories Im glad I came across the post and I'm truly struggling
last Tuesday I went for my 12 week scan and they found no heartbeat me and my husband are truly devastated I had an 8 week scan thay showed correct dates and a strong heartbeat so trying to get my head around it all. I had medical management and in the end did not need the tablets as it had started naturally Im just struggling so much this was our first baby and I keep getting the usual it's very common to lose your first but it doesn't make this easier. I'm currently off work been signed off and I'm in such a bad place I just don't see things getting better i keep going through all kinds of thoughts it's my age I'm 31 and I'm overweight.
thank you for these threads for helping me realise I'm not along and good things do happen. x
This thread got me through it all. So sorry to hear of your loss
I scanned at 7 weeks and saw heartbeat and then at 10 weeks it had stopped growing at the 7 week mark.
i am 36 and not overweight so you can't blame that. Chin up and hugs xxx it gets better xxx
Thank you butterfly
I'm so pleased I've come across this thread it's really given me hope. I have got out of bed this week yet and I feel like such a failure but it's really helped me this morning.
Thank you so much xxx
I stayed in bed for a week and read through all of what was 9 parts of this thread. I have learned so much on here and looking forward to my next one. Am on cycle 3 now after the MC in July. I had an emergency ERPC after I was taken in by ambulance and kept in for 48 hours as had a big infection. Not a pleasant time xxx
it does get better though. Just make sure that before trying again you test negative on a PG test so you can ensure that any tests moving forward pick up on a new pregnancy. You may not be thinking about that yet xxx
hi ladies
been so lovely to read all your stories sorry to those that have lost and big congratulations to those of you that have bfp and have birthed
well here's my story and was woundering if anyone can help..
i missed carried 28th August 16 it happened naturally and it was confirmed by scan.. Because it all naturally and I passed the hospital said I could try again as soon as I'm ready.. me na my husband spoke about it and agreed to nature take its course in other words no pressure just if we concieve we concieve.. Well I was due on yesterday i had back ache asnd was expecting my monthly but it still hasn't arrived I tested yday and it was negative but with the last one it took 10 days post my period due date to get the positive. Keep Feeling like pulling and tugging down there to my right side and yesterday my legs was really achey .
does anyone know if your periods taken longer to arrive after a miscarriage?
I had a scan on thursday as doctor wanted my ovaries and utreus check and the scanner looked very confused and kept asking me the date of my last period
I don't by the results until Thursday
im going out my mind thinking maybe I've caught again but I just don't know.
Thanx ladies ..cx
Emma- welcome and Sorry for your loss, Fingers Crossed that you caught again! Keep us updated xx
ClaireB- welcome and sorry to hear about your loss. This thread had helped me so much. I didn't want to get out of bed either but my partner made me! i went through weeks of crying and the only thing that made me feel better was reading the stories of the women on this thread and seeing them one by one get there BFP's again, I read all the parts that were available and it was like therapy. I still cry when I come on every month for 10mins. I try to look for the good instead of the bad. every time I come on I tell myself 'at least my body and mind is getting stronger and more likely to cope with another pregnancy' & ' at least it gives me another month to diet and save money' xx hope you BFP comes soon and you go on to have a healthy and happy pregnancy.
MMA- felt like crap when I left her and must of sounded like I'm in denial to my partner coz I was saying " She's wrong, She don't know what she's talking about" He was like "she's a doctor" . Anyway I got what I went for lol xx
ClaireB and Emma I am so sorry for your losses! Claire I had the same as you we found out at our 12 week scan that the baby had no heart beat, It is just devastating - I still cry about it a lot but I am starting to have more good days than bad days so it does start to get easier.
I am 26 and it happened to me so dont blame yourself, it just happens. Its hard not to blame yourself though, I have the most irrational fear that i will just not be able to have a healthy baby and its definitely making me crazy! I am on my first proper cycle now and think I ovulated a couple of days ago so now im just waiting till I can take a test.
Hopefully you will get BFP's soon and this group will definitely help, its helped me so much
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xxx
Thank you so much sweet cherry pie and mummy fever it means so much for your replies it really does! i feel so lost at the moment
my husband made me get out of bed today! i really hope things get easier soon!
im so glad Ive found this site and the support it's truly needed! it does feel like therapy
x
Mummy fever I have everything crossed for you and sending you lots of baby dust your way you will get that bfp very soon xx