Emj I’m 23weeks today lol feels like ages ago I got my positive lol and feel like I’ve been pregnant for over a year because of my M cs do it’s really dragging for me at the moment lol xx
Oh I know what you mean Claloub. I’ve spent half of the last year pregnant and sober and have no flipping baby to show for it so I think I’ll feel the same when it happens again. You’re past half way though now so hopefully it will speed up a bit for you!! These rainbow babies will be worth the wait!xxx
I can definitely see the faint line in yours claloub. Mine is way lighter than that! I’m hoping I’m just off by a day or two so I’ll wait until tomorrow and test again thank you ladies for the support!
Haha I know Claloub. I’d say my two children were down to wine!!! Seems like when I try too hard it goes wrong! Maybe there’s something in that.. and wine!!! Haha!!
Anyone had this before? I've tested twice today 2pm (i was late testing and held wee for 4 hours) and then again at 4.15pm (held for 2hours) my 2pm test came back with a darker line, not positive but heading that way. My 4pm one back to no line. I'm on day 14 and would have thought i'd have a positive by now.
Yeah i know these are all negative, but what i'm saying is that usually they increase in strength as they get closer to ovulation, so has anyone had it so they've had a stronger line (still negative) and then it gone back to not very strong or no line at all? My cycle is 26-28 days long averagely.
I think I'm 2DPO now, its always a relief to get past the fertile week. We went for every other day this time which doesn't feel enough but we will see as I know in theory it should be. Tried to get an extra one in on O day but it didn't work out. I think I O'd on CD15 this month and we dtd on 8, 10, 12, 14 and 16 so now we wait. I'm preparing myself for a no and tbh I think it will be but I do feel ok about that. I strangely seem to have moved into a more rational way of thinking about things and given there is only a 20% change each month anyway, not even taking into account that I'm almost 41, that if it happens it will be a pleasant surprise. My due date is fast approaching (7th November) and I am hosting my best friends baby shower on Saturday so have a busy week/weekend ahead of me.
Well ladies, I avoided taking another test just in case and it seems I was right. I felt every single symptom possible but it turns out what I saw was an evaporation line as my temperature just dipped down to 36.9 today. It looks like I’ll be getting my period a couple of days early! Upside is that we can start trying in just a little over a week. I’m going to try t be more relaxed about it. Easier said than done I guess
I don't temp - does the dip in temp mean 100% no pregnancy? I've been there before with all the symptoms. Now if i do get a hint of something a bit strange i try to ignore it because noticing the symptoms doesn't help the fact you have to wait until you know the result.
Glad you have a positive attitude towards the next month. I've been listening to this positivity recording to try and improve my attitude towards getting pregnant as apparently it can make a difference, if only that things are easier to accept while the process takes it's time.
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Deedee this was mine at 11dpo and can barley see the line so if you are off ovulation by a day or 2 then it would be hardly anything to see xx
Deedee, Defo either hold it in for 4 hours and text again or wait till the morning.
Claloub hoe many weeks are you now? I remember when you got your bfp!!
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God my errors!!
test again and how many weeks! I can actually spell!😜
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Emj I’m 23weeks today lol feels like ages ago I got my positive lol and feel like I’ve been pregnant for over a year because of my M cs do it’s really dragging for me at the moment lol xx
Oh I know what you mean Claloub. I’ve spent half of the last year pregnant and sober and have no flipping baby to show for it so I think I’ll feel the same when it happens again. You’re past half way though now so hopefully it will speed up a bit for you!! These rainbow babies will be worth the wait!xxx
Deffo worth the wait and I’m just trying to focus on Xmas at the moment once that’s been and gone I know it won’t be long xx
Emj have a drink hun I caught all 3 times after a good session lol xx
I can definitely see the faint line in yours claloub. Mine is way lighter than that! I’m hoping I’m just off by a day or two so I’ll wait until tomorrow and test again thank you ladies for the support!
Haha I know Claloub. I’d say my two children were down to wine!!! Seems like when I try too hard it goes wrong! Maybe there’s something in that.. and wine!!! Haha!!
deedee, I have everything crossed for you.
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Anyone had this before? I've tested twice today 2pm (i was late testing and held wee for 4 hours) and then again at 4.15pm (held for 2hours) my 2pm test came back with a darker line, not positive but heading that way. My 4pm one back to no line. I'm on day 14 and would have thought i'd have a positive by now.
Could your surge have been yesterday nelly? Or overnight then you are now going back out of your surge.
Last night there was no line either?
Nelly some people don’t ovulate until as late as day 21 depending how long your cycle is, all those are negative hun xx
Yeah i know these are all negative, but what i'm saying is that usually they increase in strength as they get closer to ovulation, so has anyone had it so they've had a stronger line (still negative) and then it gone back to not very strong or no line at all? My cycle is 26-28 days long averagely.
Maybe cos you only left it 2 hours. Hold for 4 if you can and test again xx
Hi everyone, how are we all?
I think I'm 2DPO now, its always a relief to get past the fertile week. We went for every other day this time which doesn't feel enough but we will see as I know in theory it should be. Tried to get an extra one in on O day but it didn't work out. I think I O'd on CD15 this month and we dtd on 8, 10, 12, 14 and 16 so now we wait. I'm preparing myself for a no and tbh I think it will be but I do feel ok about that. I strangely seem to have moved into a more rational way of thinking about things and given there is only a 20% change each month anyway, not even taking into account that I'm almost 41, that if it happens it will be a pleasant surprise. My due date is fast approaching (7th November) and I am hosting my best friends baby shower on Saturday so have a busy week/weekend ahead of me.
Really hope you are all ok, have a great week x
That’s defo enough hun you are well covered and yes the relaxed approach is far better:)
defo stay busy and I hope your friend has a lovely baby shower that’s a lovely thing to do for her 💕
Well ladies, I avoided taking another test just in case and it seems I was right. I felt every single symptom possible but it turns out what I saw was an evaporation line as my temperature just dipped down to 36.9 today. It looks like I’ll be getting my period a couple of days early! Upside is that we can start trying in just a little over a week. I’m going to try t be more relaxed about it. Easier said than done I guess
Aww sorry deedee those evap lines are a pain In the butt, but at least your looking on the positive side xx
I don't temp - does the dip in temp mean 100% no pregnancy? I've been there before with all the symptoms. Now if i do get a hint of something a bit strange i try to ignore it because noticing the symptoms doesn't help the fact you have to wait until you know the result.
Glad you have a positive attitude towards the next month. I've been listening to this positivity recording to try and improve my attitude towards getting pregnant as apparently it can make a difference, if only that things are easier to accept while the process takes it's time.
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