I’m not gonna lie I cried at 3:00 this morning because the test was a bfn. I really thought that this would be my month. A little info that I forgot to add when I started this thread. As all of you know I had a positive opk on CD 14 along with ovulation pain. What I forgot to add about the ovulation pain was that I was having it on both sides. So more than likely I was releasing an egg on both sides which should have increased my chances but I guess I am not that lucky. It took me 2 years to get pregnant with my daughter, second pregnancy we weren’t ttc but not preventing for 5 months and end in mc at 7.5 weeks. Started ttc right away and took 5 months for get pregnant with my son. (My daughter was from a previous relationship. My son is with my now husband.) I think what makes it so hard is being around people that come off bc and get pregnant their first cycle like my bff. Was like that with all three of her kids. She is currently pregnant with the third one.
@Bethanyjean hopefully you will have a sudden peak. Mine just went up really quick. @Mom2alexis hope your okay, I know what you mean, it seems like everyone you speak to got pregnant ‘by accident’ or first cycle it really rubs it in your face when your struggling hopefully it will be our month next xx
Noone tells you how lonely TTC is, im sorry you cried this morning i wish there was something i could do to help. I have never been pregnant so we are trying for our first but i feel like i will ruin our chances because i want it so bad. I usually always get ovulation pain on both sides and i usually get it for around 2 days
Having you ladies helps a lot because you know how I feel. That’s why I am on here is so that I have women to talk to and so others can talk to me because we are all ttc and it’s not easy for us.
Exactly! My best friend knows i am TTC and shes recently given birth after falling pregnant unexpectedly and she doesnt understand how hard it is. Do either of you ladies do the old myth of putting your legs in the air for 15 mins after bd?🤣
@Bethanyjean I do if my oh is in bed n hasn't gone to the loo then I clench my bum and curl my belly in so he doesn't notice and never go for a post sex wee for at least an hour 🙈 lol.
@Mom2alexis I get you and just know we are all here with you xx
I’m obsessed with weeing on a stick. Just tried another one, still no line.. I’m 10 dpo, do you think I still have a chance of a line showing? Anyone heard of this?
Anyone else just stare at the stick hoping it will suddenly show a line 🙈
@Bethanyjean the OPK's dont discriminate between LH and HCG because of their very similar structure so an increase in HCG will show up on the OPK. (doesnt work the other way around though as HPT tests for the part that is different between the two)
@Poca92 now you’ve said this we will be doing these as well 😂 i don’t know if I’m seeing things, I’ve just compared my last 3 tests and I’m sure I can see a very faint line on the last one, I’ve tried taking a picture but it doesn’t show on the camera. Husband thinks he may be able to see it too 🤔 but I think it may be because we’ve been staring at it so long 😂
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I’m not gonna lie I cried at 3:00 this morning because the test was a bfn. I really thought that this would be my month. A little info that I forgot to add when I started this thread. As all of you know I had a positive opk on CD 14 along with ovulation pain. What I forgot to add about the ovulation pain was that I was having it on both sides. So more than likely I was releasing an egg on both sides which should have increased my chances but I guess I am not that lucky. It took me 2 years to get pregnant with my daughter, second pregnancy we weren’t ttc but not preventing for 5 months and end in mc at 7.5 weeks. Started ttc right away and took 5 months for get pregnant with my son. (My daughter was from a previous relationship. My son is with my now husband.) I think what makes it so hard is being around people that come off bc and get pregnant their first cycle like my bff. Was like that with all three of her kids. She is currently pregnant with the third one.
@Mom2alexis hope your okay, I know what you mean, it seems like everyone you speak to got pregnant ‘by accident’ or first cycle it really rubs it in your face when your struggling
@Mom2alexis I get you and just know we are all here with you xx
i don’t know if I’m seeing things, I’ve just compared my last 3 tests and I’m sure I can see a very faint line on the last one, I’ve tried taking a picture but it doesn’t show on the camera. Husband thinks he may be able to see it too 🤔 but I think it may be because we’ve been staring at it so long 😂