Hey lovelies, I’ve been on the quiet side as I’m seriously low right now. It’s my dude date following the MC
this week and it’s hit me like a tonne of bricks. Today especially! I went shopping and then found myself at the crematorium where they scattered the remains trying to somehow say goodbye so I could at least try to move on. But all I’ve done is cry all day. It feels like the MC happened yesterday! I just don’t know how to deal with it.
I hoped all the way through that I’d be pregnant again by now but I actually think my body subconsciously dedicated itself to our angel baby for the time I should have carried them. Maybe I can move forwards after the date?! 🙏🏼🙏🏼 God I hope so!!! im 12DPO today. I think! Having Covid maybe messed with things. F I don’t get a peak on OPKs, just a high.
Had nausea , tiredness, cramps and crazy emotions. I didn’t have any tests so did an OPK as my cramps felt very like OV. Got 2 lines, not high but stronger than I’d expect. So god knows!!
Got some HCG strips today. Tested this aft coz I’m stupidly impatient 🙄 BFN of course! But I guess I’m not out until i at least test at a proper time with FMU right?! 🤷🏼♀️🙄
how are you all? Where are you all up to? Any BFPs lately? ❤️❤️❤️
@KelB79 Sorry you are having a difficult time. I had a MC two years ago and had a cry about it last night. It does come back but gets easier over time x
@KelB79 I am so sorry to hear you are struggling so much. I can only imagine how difficult it is now the due date has arrived. It is normal for you to be feeling so overwhelmed about it. If you feel it is too much it may be worth speaking with someone about it properly. I hope you get your rainbow baby so soon ❤️ Have everything crossed for you x
@MrsSpiller2021 I am so sorry AF got you. Here's hoping for this next cycle 🙏 take it easy and allow yourself to feel a bit down about AF. By the time it's over you will be ready for next cycle 🤞
I am currently 6 wks. I got 3 + on clear blue at wkend so I have booked early assurance scan for a few weeks time. I find it hard to let myself get excited until things are a bit further on. But hopefully all will be okay 🙏 xx
@KelB79 I'm so sorry ah I had tears in my eyes reading your post, bless you. I wish there was something to say that would help. 💕 x @MrsSpiller2021 ah sorry af came x @Fairycakes88 I am 4 dpo too!! 🤗 x @cheesecoleslaw86 that's amazing about the 3+, hopefully your scan will come around soon, the waiting is such an anxious time x
@SmithL35 thank you so much. It feels like time stands still in early preg I feel. Not dissimilar to the dreaded 2 week wait. Here's hoping this is a lucky thread and we have a few more bfps this cycle ❤️❤️❤️
I am 3DPO after two cycles of not really being sure I even ovulated as I only got my cycle back in January after 13 months PP. Cycles have been 49 and 35 days. Even if I don’t get pregnant this month my cycle should be 31/32 days so I’ll call that a win as it’s getting down to nearer my usual 26 days 🎉
We did all we could this month, lots of BD at the right time so I’m in that optimistic phase. Tempted to stop temping now I know ovulation is confirmed but not sure I’ll have the willpower.
This forum was so supportive when I was TTC number 1 so lovely to be back ☺️
@Fairycakes88 & @RememberToBreathe all the best ladies. Ik it's tempting to test but wait it out. Last month I was so sure it had happened for me. I gave up lol I'm just over it and thinking whenever it happens for us then that's it
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AF is due tomorrow, so I guess I just have to wait it out xx
im 12DPO today. I think! Having Covid maybe messed with things. F I don’t get a peak on OPKs, just a high.
how are you all? Where are you all up to? Any BFPs lately? ❤️❤️❤️
AF got me yesterday 😩 xx
@MrsSpiller2021 So sorry that AF got you x
I am 4dpo today, impatiently waiting but not overly optimistic this month as I think our timing wasn't the greatest! But guess we will soon see.
@MrsSpiller2021 I am so sorry AF got you. Here's hoping for this next cycle 🙏 take it easy and allow yourself to feel a bit down about AF. By the time it's over you will be ready for next cycle 🤞
@Fairycakes88 everything crossed for you 🤞
I am currently 6 wks. I got 3 + on clear blue at wkend so I have booked early assurance scan for a few weeks time. I find it hard to let myself get excited until things are a bit further on. But hopefully all will be okay 🙏 xx
@MrsSpiller2021 ah sorry af came
@Fairycakes88 I am 4 dpo too!! 🤗 x
@cheesecoleslaw86 that's amazing about the 3+, hopefully your scan will come around soon, the waiting is such an anxious time x
@SmithL35 ❤️
I am 3DPO after two cycles of not really being sure I even ovulated as I only got my cycle back in January after 13 months PP. Cycles have been 49 and 35 days. Even if I don’t get pregnant this month my cycle should be 31/32 days so I’ll call that a win as it’s getting down to nearer my usual 26 days 🎉
We did all we could this month, lots of BD at the right time so I’m in that optimistic phase. Tempted to stop temping now I know ovulation is confirmed but not sure I’ll have the willpower.
7dpo for me today, have felt slightly nauseous since waking up and a temp increase but not reading too much into it as its too early yet.
@Babe 1to4 I don’t keep tests in the house 😂